When should I make the first move?
Gentlemen, let the beautiful lady tell you about her keen business insights before you can suggest that the two meet for lunch and discuss how to work together (find an excuse to go on a date with her).
Ladies, let him fill you in on the hoes and hoes he went through in his entrepreneurial journey before you invite him to lunch with you and your uncle to discuss the possibility of his uncle hiring him (enticing him to start dating you).
Let the person feel that he or she is interested in him or her because he or she has attracted your attention through his or her intelligence, charming personality, outstanding talent and other unique qualities.
Then he or she will increasingly value the time he or she spends with you, because your relationship is something he or she has somehow earned. Make your new love interest work his way through the first audition before you give him (or her) credit for tonight's romance.
Gentlemen, there’s another reason why you shouldn’t ask her out right away. When she decides to spend one night of her precious time with you, she has to make sure she’s having fun too. Women often need to invest more in the relationship, she needs to know you more fully. In the “date or not date” decision process, she not only has to consider your looks, but also to study your personality, your intelligence, your spirit… Everything about you. Talk to her, open up to her, and give her as much information as possible so she can make a more informed decision about whether or not to date you.
Hunter-men, don’t ask a woman out too early, or she’ll think you’re only interested in her looks. A woman will value you more if she finds that you appreciate something other than her beauty.
Huntress, you can move a little faster than the men. Men don't mind being treated like sex toys. In fact, some of them love it!
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