Picking Cherries

If you can find “cherries in conversation”, you will never let your chat with your crush fall into a rut of pointless small talk.
Listen and look for any slightly unusual words, which are the seeds of the cherries.
Plant them in the ground, let them take root, and let your first conversation bloom into a flower that your crush will never forget.
Female: To plant the “soulmate” seed, suggest doing something he is most interested in on your first date. Remember, for men, intimacy does not mean sitting across from each other and gazing deeply into each other’s eyes and pouring out your heart, but doing things together.
Male: Make your conversation more psychological. When talking to your crush, talk more about people, feelings, philosophy, basic principles, and intuition. Agree more and argue less when expressing your opinions. When your crush is in a bad mood, ask her to tell you why, and then listen – like a woman. In this way, you will appear considerate in your crush’s eyes.
Imagine your conversation with your crush as a huge spotlight.
Every time the spotlight shines on your crush, he (or she) will be filled with excitement.
If the spotlight turns to yourself or others, other things, your crush will feel that your conversation has become boring.
Look for the most unique quality in your soulmate. This quality is so deeply hidden that most people never mention it.
Then look into your soulmate’s eyes and call their name, using this killer compliment to hit them straight in the heart.