Initial conversation

Talking is like making love

The first time you have sex with a new partner, you gently ask, “Do you like the position I’m in?” Is there anything else you want me to do?” But you can’t just ask your new interest, “Did you enjoy the conversation, sweetheart?”
When you two start getting intimate, you don’t know which parts she wants you to touch or how he likes you to touch him during the first few times you have sex. How hard or how gentle does he or she want to be? You can only see in the details. You observe her body, his expression, you listen to her soft groans, his casual gasps. You may find that every time you kiss her nipples, she goes crazy. So naturally, you kiss that area more and more often. When you nibble at his thigh, he tries to sneak away; Well, you’ll never bite that tender spot again.
In the early days of talking to a new interest, be as sensitive as you are during sex. Your early verbal communication is just as important as the first few times of sex – perhaps even more important, because if the early conversations don’t go well, your early sex never happens.