Talking is like selling

While you’re talking, observe how your partner reacts to what you’re saying, paying particular attention to unconscious facial expressions, head movements, body movements, gestures, and even eye changes.
Top salespeople need to learn how to interpret every customer’s body signal and plan their next marketing step accordingly. Except for those who have specialized in deception, the average person can’t hide their feelings when communicating.
Your sweetheart may not use verbal language to tell you how he or she feels about your words, but he or she sends out many unintentional signals that can clearly reveal everything.
When your crush’s expression suddenly becomes stiff, it’s time to quietly change the subject and find something that will make his or her eyes shine again.
Watch your partner’s head movements. When the person is bored with you, they will pull their head back to a position farther away from you. A noise from the kitchen, a new guest entering the room, hearing his or her name mentioned by someone else in the room… Any distraction will cause them to take their eyes off your face.
But if your sweetheart finds you or your topic fascinating, he or she won’t look away. Even if all the glasses on the tray are broken under your feet one by one, the eyes of your lover will still stay firmly on your face. Pay close attention to their head movements. When your crush’s head starts moving away from you, that’s another cue to change the subject.

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