Many hunter-men, when they have finally asked their love out, wonder: "Where should I take her?" Many huntress, when asked where they prefer to go on a date, simply say, "Find a restaurant." It's a choice I've made myself over the years. Over the course of the meal, you get to know the person and give them a chance to explore every fascinating aspect of your charming personality. But if your goal is to make someone fall in love with you, a restaurant isn't the best place to go. There's plenty of evidence that a loved one will like you more if you take him or her to a place that provokes strong emotions or opens up his or her heart. Researchers have long established that there is a strong link between emotional arousal and sexual attraction. They took female research assistants and male subjects to a scenic spot for the experiment. It is a popular tourist destination, and subjects can look down and see the unfathomable Grand Canyon below them. There are two suspension Bridges over the canyon, one for tourists, strong and safe; The other one looks dangerous and scary! The suspension bridge dangles over the canyon, a precariousness that only a few brave souls dare to step on. The men who crossed the dangerous bridge wrote more erotic stories, and the men who crossed the dangerous Bridge were -- you guessed it -- more likely to initiate calls to female assistants to discuss their traumatic experiences that day. Experiments have shown that anxiety-provoking situations are more likely to evoke sexual desire. Why is that? Recall the chemical phenylethylamine that we discussed earlier. Fear can also trigger the secretion of this substance, so that in the early days of fear and infatuation, the same thing rushes through our blood.
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