It's obviously not a good idea to advise someone to walk on a dangerous suspension bridge. But science tells us that if you trigger emotions in your partner on a first date, he or she will develop strong feelings for you. Huntermen, you can take her horseback riding or surfing. If these physical activities are too tiring, find an emotionally draining activity -- going to a show, a horror movie, or a concert. Take myself for example, every time I see a beautiful ballet performance, I will be enchanted. Maybe your lover is moved by music, maybe she likes opera, maybe he likes dog fighting competitions. Sharing anxiety and discussing current stressful situations can bring couples closer together. Many office romances arise when two people face the same challenge together. Movies, plays, and fairy tales are full of stories where heroes and heroines fight bad guys together and live happily ever after. Before planning a date, research what makes your desired person nervous and then plan an emotionally evocative experience. You don't have to risk losing your life or an arm, just share some anxiety early and feel the tenderness flowing between you. Then, of course, you can have dinner together and discuss your shared traumatic experience.
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