How to make the beloved quickly produce the feeling of “meeting late”?

Have you ever met someone and immediately felt, "This person and I have a lot in common"? The attraction is instantaneous, the electric shock is instantaneous, the intimacy is instantaneous, and you immediately like the person.
On the contrary, you might meet someone and think, "It's like this person is from another planet!" Then you lose interest in that person, alienation and coldness take over, and you instantly reject that person.
Whenever you meet someone for the first time, your feelings will fall somewhere between these two extremes. You don't know why you feel this way and not that way, they just happen naturally.
Maybe you don't care, but how these people put their words does make a big difference to your impression of them. Similarly, your choice of words reveals a lot about your personality to your potential partner. Our words reveal our thoughts, and our words place us in different social classes. The words we say can give a hint of our professional status, ideological tendencies, interests and even our outlook on life. The words we use when we speak, which may seem casual, actually reveal a lot about the way we experience the world.
To create a sense of similarity, you can use a subconscious language technique that is simple but goes right to the point. By choosing your words wisely, you can make the person feel like you are part of his or her hometown.